tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1141618420984105506.post6887058407447450501..comments2024-03-25T03:14:17.241-04:00Comments on CandidAnn: What's taking you so long to have a baby?CandidAnnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14367858984905663311noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1141618420984105506.post-70983701747425841212012-03-24T10:49:52.666-04:002012-03-24T10:49:52.666-04:00Maximuslyricus: Wow! I wish hubby and I had been a...Maximuslyricus: Wow! I wish hubby and I had been able to have such a clarity of feelings/thought/response when we were going thru our 5 years of infertility and folk kept asking us that question. I'll never forget, I had one ex-inlaw - go figure - who I'm pretty sure made a point of asking the question over and over just to hurt me. Finally, my sister did me the favor of telling him to shut up. So trust - you never know just many people you've helped by putting up this post!Philliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06494731251178936139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1141618420984105506.post-13422937039674548742012-03-01T10:13:31.707-05:002012-03-01T10:13:31.707-05:00"know that children are not a requisite for h..."know that children are not a requisite for happiness" <--- So true. I think a lot of women feel like if they don't have children then they will not be happy. It's very important to know that you have to do your best and DECIDED to be happy, despite whatever curveballs life throws your way.CandidAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14367858984905663311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1141618420984105506.post-72327639829996376072012-02-29T09:52:35.348-05:002012-02-29T09:52:35.348-05:00Amen sister, I have kids, I wanted kids, but we ha...Amen sister, I have kids, I wanted kids, but we have to stop treating those who choose not to have children like lepers. If I'm curious about a friend or family members reproductive plans, I'll ask, without judgement. I think too many people have children because they feel they are supposed to. For many it's not even a thought or choice, but rather a happy accident. We should be more thoughtful, and know that children are not a requisite for happiness.Jahmaiah Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08069931409273682071noreply@blogger.com